The latest on love

What do cultural anthropologists know about love? To mark Valentine’s Day, a widely celebrated occasion in the United States, I did some research. Using the Anthropology Plus database available through my university library, and with love as my only search term, I came up with the following list of articles published by cultural anthropologists from 2007 to the present. This list offers a quick glimpse into the cultural anthropology of love.

Topics include romantic love, family love and love of country; love as a basis for establishing a marriage; breaking up when romance fades; professions of love in discourse and song and professions of love in the midst of a violent relationship or one that is risky in terms of HIV/AIDS.

Note: the journals are not open-source. If you email particular authors, however, they are likely to happily provide you with an electronic copy of their article. Often, the journal provides the email address of the author on the first page or at the end.

Abu-Rabia-Queder, Sarab. Coping with ‘Forbidden Love’ and Loveless Marriage. Educated Bedouin Women from the Negev. Ethnohistory 8(3):297-323, 2007.

Carlisle, Jessica. Mother Love. A Forced Divorce in Damascus. Anthropology of the Middle East 2(1):89-102, 2007.

Clapp, James A. The Romantic Travel Movie, Italian-Style. Visual Anthropology 22(1):52-63, 2009.

Faier, Lieba. Filipina Migrants in Rural Japan and their Professions of Love. American Ethnologist 34(1):148-162, 2007.

Foster, Robert J. Commodities, Brands, Love and Kula: Comparative Notes on Value Creation. Anthropological Theory 8(1):9-25, 2008.

Gershon, Ilana. Email My Heart: Remediation and Romantic Break-Ups. Anthropology Today 24(6):13-15, 2008.

Haeri, Shahla. Sacred Canopy : Love and Sex Under the Veil. Iranian Studies: Bulletin of the Society for Iranian Cultural and Social Studies 42(1):113-126, 2009.

Harrison, Abigail. Hidden Love : Sexual Ideologies and Relationship Ideals among Rural South African Adolescents in the Context of HIV/AIDS. Culture, Health and Sexuality 10(2):175-189, 2008.

Hart, Kimberley. Love by Arrangement: The Ambiguity of ‘Spousal Choice’ in a Turkish Village. Journal of the Royal Anthropological Institute 13(2):345-362, 2007.

Helsloot, John. The Triumph of Valentine’s Day in the Netherlands: After Fifty Years. Lietuvos Etnologija 8(17):97-116, 2008..

Kapteijns, Lidwien. Discourse on Moral Womanhood in Somali Popular Songs, 1960-1990. Journal of African History 50(1):101-122, 2009.

Lipset, David. Women without Qualities: Further Courtship Stories Told by Young Papua New Guinean Men. Ethnology 46(2):93-111, 2007.

Marsden, Magnus. Love and Elopement in Northern Pakistan. Journal of the Royal Anthropological Institute 13(1):91-108, 2007.

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Anthro in the news 1/25/10

• Cultural anthropologist on key aspect of Haitian devastation

It’s rare that a cultural anthropologist is quoted on the front page of The New York Times or of any of the mainstream media. So it’s especially noteworthy when it happens. In this case, the article is even above-the-fold. “Burials without Rituals” describes the extreme psychological stress of Haitians facing loss of many family members, friends and others. This stress takes on an extra edge given the critical importance of proper burials to ensure good relations with the dead. The article draws on insights from Ira Lowenthal, a cultural anthropologist who received his doctorate in the United States and has lived in Haiti for 34 years. He comments: “Convening with the dead is what allows Haitians to link themselves, directly by bloodline, to a pre-slave past…” With so many bodies denied a place in family burial plots where many rituals take place, important spiritual connections are severed: “It is a violation of everything these people hold dear … On the other hand, people know they have no choice.”

• OMG limited brain capacity for Facebook friends

The Daily Mail, UK carried a piece highlighting the research of Robin Dunbar, professor of evolutionary anthropology at Oxford University. Dunbar is well-known for his work on sociality, grooming and friendship in nonhuman primates and throughout human evolution. He claims that the size of the human neocortex limits us to manage about 150 friends max. This figure has come to be known as Dunbar’s Number. It has been tested in various contexts from neolithic societies to contemporary office environments. Dunbar is now studying social networking sites to see if Dunbar’s Number applies. It seems to. “The interesting thing is that you can have 1,500 friends but when you actually look at traffic on sites, you see people maintain the same inner circle of around 150 people.” The published study will appear later this year.

• Thanks for the compliment

According to an article in the Chicago Herald-News, studies of social scientists and psychologists point to the nuanced meanings and effects of compliments. Peter Wogan, associate professor of anthropology at Willamette University in Oregon, highlights how gender affects the giving and receiving of compliments. He says that women tend to compliment other women on their appearance while men do not. If men compliment women on their appearance, women perceive it as a come-on and often deflect it. Blogger’s note: I was struck by how heterosexual these patterns sound. So I went to Google Scholar to learn more about Wogan’s research. I think I found the source (PDF file), a brief chapter based on a class project Wogan conducted a few years ago. Students in his “Language and Culture” class collected 270 compliments on the campus in Salem, Oregon. An intriguing glimpse into campus compliments, and a pilot study that would merit replication in different contexts.

• Thoughtful review of Secrets of the Tribe

Secrets of the Tribe is a new documentary exploring the ethical controversies related to anthropological and other research among the Yanomami of the Venezuelan Amazon since the 1960s. It will premiere in Sundance’s World Cinema Documentary Competition. The reviewer comments that the film is “…an often provocative interrogation of how all ambitious people impact the world around them and how difficult (or impossible) it is to be a mere observer.”

• Upcoming event noted in the The Nation

As posted in The Nation, The Palestine Center in Washington, D.C., is hosting a briefing: “Humanitarianism: Prolonging the Palestinian Political Plight?” with Ilana Feldman, assistant professor of anthropology and international affairs, The George Washington University. She is the author of Governing Gaza: Bureaucracy, Authority and the Work of Rule (1917-67). The event is free and open to the public. A light lunch will be served to registered guests at 12:30pm. The briefing and question/answer period will be from 1 – 2 p.m. on January 27. Registration is required.

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My challenge to David Brooks

As you may have heard, New York Times columnist David Brooks recently wrote about how Haiti’s culture is mired down by vodou and is anti-progress. And as you might imagine, his comments drew a lot of criticism from cultural anthropologists and others who have spent time in Haiti and with Haitian people.

Brooks apparently adheres to the simplistic and misleading idea of culture as used by political scientist Samuel Huntington (pictured) and former USAID administrator Lawrence Harrison. Neither of these men is an expert on culture as it is understood by the social scientists whose central mission is to study it, understand it, write about it and teach about it: cultural anthropologists.

Brooks and other conservatives no doubt find comfort in the Huntington-Harrison approach to culture. Pro-progress cultures are winners. Funny enough, they are pro-capitalist cultures along the lines of the United States with its strong emphasis on individual economic success, competitive social relationships and multiple car ownership. Anti-progress cultures are losers: they value some degree of social equality and group relationships that might include, heaven help us, labor unions. Low on car ownership among other things.

The H&H model goes against basic principles in cultural anthropology by labeling “others” in ways that are blatantly U.S.-capitalist-ethnocentric. Moreover, adopting the H&H model means that you will never recognize the viability, sustainability and warmth of so many other cultural systems. In fact, you are likely to directly or indirectly participate in the destruction of those cultures through economic, political and cultural imperialism. This is where Huntington and Hirshman lead and where David Brooks has followed.

So here’s my challenge to David Brooks: take an introductory cultural anthropology course now. Open your eyes and your heart to “other” cultures that may look like losers according to H&H but in fact hold the clues to a better future for all of us. If we would only give them a chance. I teach a six-week, distance ed version of my intro class every summer: Anth 002.10 at George Washington University. Mr. Brooks is most welcome to enroll.

Image: Samuel Huntington by Flickr user World Economic Forum via Creative Commons.

What low-income Haitians want: lessons for aid-givers

In rural Haiti, before entering anyone’s yard, one calls out : “Onè! (Honor!), waiting to hear the welcome, “Respe!” (Respect) before entering. Cultural anthropologist Jennie Smith-Paríolá did long term fieldwork with “peasant” groups in Haiti’s Northeast, Central Plateau, and Grand Anse regions. She learned much about the values of honor/respect and how they infuse Haitians ideas of right and wrong and the kind of life that humans ought to be able to have.

Many countries and organizations are committed to helping Haiti recover from the devastation of the earthquake and to move ahead to build a stronger country than existed before. The shock of the earthquake’s toll in terms of mortality, loss of family and loved ones, and physical destruction is serving as a wake-up call to the Haitian government and to other countries and institutions that something, now and onwards, seriously, must be done to help the Haitian people achieve a better future.

Typically, countries and organizations tend to give the kind of aid that they tend to give…regardless of the context of the place and people in need. Among other forms of help, the US has sent in the military. In fact, as of today’s newspaper accounts, the US is in charge of the airport and the majority of planes landing carry US military. Planes bringing food and water are being held back.

Patterns of giving are entrenched and hard to change. But they must be. While the US military no doubt  serves an important role in helping to retrieve bodies and maintain order in what is an increasingly desperate situation, aid efforts should not ever be dominated by “military aid.”

Smith-Paríolá worked with and learned from the poor and disempowered of rural Haiti, many of whom have formed small-scale community organizations to provide services and to organize production and trade. From them, she heard incisive critiques of outsiders’ concepts of progress, democracy, and development. She listened to their aspirations and their views of how outsiders need to change. Read her book, When the Hands Are Many: Community Organization and Social Change in Rural Haiti. It conveys the voices, aspirations, and even songs of the people.

Here is what poor Haitians define as elements of a good society:

1. relative economic parity
2. strong political leaders with a sense of service who “care for” and “stand for” the poor
3. respe (respect)
4. religious pluralism to allow room for ancestral and spiritual beliefs
5. cooperative work
6. access of citizens to basic social services
7. personal and collective security

Smith-Paríolá notes that aid organizations have contested the first two of these: the first is seen as counter-productive to economic progress and the second as counter-productive to democratic principles.

In terms of respe, David Brooks’ editorial (see Samuel Martínez’s response here) in the New York Times on January 14 is a good example of the lack thereof among many outsiders.

The fourth point, from the local people’s viewpoint, can be achieved even though many people are affiliated with Protestant or Catholic missions. They feel that religious/spiritual pluralism is viable and that different belief systems are mutually informing.
Working in groups is part of rural life. It is accompanied by laughter, songs, jokes, games, and sometimes drinking. Collective play and performance “heat up” labor. Aid agencies often look down on what they perceive as rowdy and undisciplined behavior.
The sixth point is currently beyond the reach of most rural Haitians. It includes adequate schooling (primary and secondary schools with teachers and regular hours of operation), literacy training for adults, decent transportation (just a nearby road), farming equipment (hoes, machetes, plows, fertilizers, pesticides), “Western” health care (an adequate clinic within walking distance), a fair judicial system (providing equal justice to the poor), enough land to live on (land redistribution), and a healthier environment.

As the government is increasingly unable to provide for people’s livelihoods and other forms of basic needs, unrest has also increased. Crime rates have risen steeply in Port-au-Prince and also, to some extent, in rural areas. More and more often, Haitians voice concerns about feeling safe.

The lessons are clear: major changes are required in the culture of big aid organization, in how they define need, what kinds of help they provide and how they provide it. They must form coalitions with Haitian community groups based on a practiced respe that honors differences and similarities in values. They must reframe their thinking to look at the shortcoming of the powerful and wealthy rather than of the poor. Most importantly, following the values of poor Haitians, economic inequality must be reduced to the extent that if one person is eating, everyone is eating.

How to do this? A first step is that big aid givers  have to abandon their authoritative knowledge of what’s best for Haiti and listen to the Haitians. This strategy means that the typical architecture of big aid will come crumbling down just like so many buildings struck by the earthquake. A different kind of reconstruction is in order: collaborative, culturally-informed aid must replace the age-old top-down kind of aid.

The people of Haiti need help, but on their terms. Let’s start with respe and move on from there.

Image: “Map of Haiti,” from Flickr user DrGulas, licensed with Creative Commons.

Recent sources on Haitian culture and social change

This list is intended to provide a guide to recent resources on culture and society in Haiti for people who wish to be better informed about the context in which the recent earthquake and its devastation are occurring. With apologies, most of the journal articles are not public access.

Furthermore, we really encourage everyone to visit InterAction’s Haiti response page, which includes a variety of ways to help out.

Benoît, C. 2007. “The politics of vodou: AIDS, access to health care and the use of culture in Haiti”. Anthropology in Action 143, 59-68.

Coreil, J. & Mayard, G. 2006. “Indigenization of illness support groups in Haiti”. Human Organization 652, 128-139.

Curci, S. 2008. “Mapping Haitian history: a photo essay”Journal of Haitian Studies 142, 120-30.

Farmer, P. 2004. “An anthropology of structural violence.” Current Anthropology 453, 305-325.

Farmer, P. E. 2001. “The consumption of the poor: tuberculosis in the 21st century.” Ethnography 12, 183-216.

Farmer, Paul. 1992. AIDS and Accusation: Haiti and the Geography of Blame. Berkeley: University of California Press.

Farmer, P. E. 2008. “Mother courage and the future of war.” Social Analysis 522, 165-184.

Giafferi, N. 2004. The violence of relations in fieldwork: the Haitian example. Terrain 43, 123-40, 159.

Guilbaud, P., & Preston, M. 2006. “Healthcare assessment study in Les Cayes, Haiti: towards a framework for rural capacity development and analysis”. Journal of Haitian Studies 122, 48-69.

Hastings, A. 2007. “Eradicating global poverty: is it really achievable?” Journal of Haitian Studies 132, 120-134.

James, E. C. 2004. “The political economy of “trauma” in Haiti in the democratic era of insecurity”. Culture, Medicine and Psychiatry 282, 127-149.

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Anthro in the news 1/11/10

• Tell it to the Marines
NPR aired an interview with cultural anthropologist Paula Holmes-Eber who teaches “operational culture” at Marine Corps University in Quantico, Virginia. Classes include discussion of cultural sensitivity and the cultural/social consequences of military presence and military actions, such as blowing up a bridge.

• Nacirema craziness goes global
In an article called “The Americanization of Mental Illness” in The New York Times Magazine, Ethan Watters (blog) describes how Western, especially American, globalization includes the spread of Western/American understandings of mental health and illness. He points to some of the negative consequences of this trend.

In discussing why people diagnosed with schizophrenia in developing countries fare better than those in industrialized countries, he draws on the work of medical anthropologist Juli McGruder of the University of Puget Sound. McGruder’s research in Zanzibar shows how Swahili spiritual beliefs and healing practices help the ill person by avoiding stigma and keeping social and family ties intact. Note: Nacirema is “American” spelled backwards.

• Guardians of the nameless dead
The bodies of hundreds of victims of political violence in Colombia are often disposed of by being thrown into rivers. Sometimes the bodies wash up on the river bank. WIS News describes the work of one local civil servant, Maria Ines Mejia, who spends time recovering bodies from the Cauca River and thereby helping authorities record the deaths and chronicle the killings.

Maria Victoria Uribe, an anthropologist with Colombia’s National Commission of Reconciliation and Reparation, names people like Mejia as “unknown heroes.” Michelle Hamilton, an expert in body composition who directs the Forensic Anthropology Center at Texas State University, notes that “…you can imagine trying to grab onto a water-logged body with the skin slipping off. It can come off in your hands.”

• Celebration and warning
Survival International’s “weighty coffee-table book,” We Are One: A Celebration of Tribal Peoples, is reviewed in the Ecologist. The unity and diversity of indigenous peoples around the world is celebrated in beautiful photographs and through the words of tribal and non-tribal people. Given that Survival International commissioned the book, it also expectedly contains a message of deep concern about the dangers to survival that so many indigenous/tribal cultures face.

• Who rules?
Janine Wedel is a cultural anthropologist and professor of public policy at George Mason University. Her book, The Shadow Elite: How the World’s New Power Brokers Undermine Democracy, Government, and the Free Market, was reviewed in the Financial Times and by Arianna Huffington of the Huffington Post. Wedel has appeared at several book launches in D.C.
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Yemeni women down and out in the Tenderloin

The Tenderloin is the poorest neighborhood in San Francisco. Some of its poorest residents are immigrants who come from the poorest regions of Yemen. Yemen is one of the poorest countries in the world.

Ninety percent of Yemeni immigrants to the US are single males, and this pattern prevails among the approximately 1,000 Yemenis in the Tenderloin. But there are some married couples with children and some extended families.

Cultural anthropologist Lucia Volk conducted interviews with 15 Yemeni women who live in the Tenderloin. Her conversations reveal the many challenges they face and the resulting distress they are experiencing. A consistent theme is a strong sense of social isolation, both from the mainstream culture and other Muslims including other Yemenis. The women’s inabilities to speak English and their Yemeni dress (including full veiling) create barriers separating them from people in mainstream American culture. In terms of the latter, their small apartments with an open kitchen-dining room-living room plan prohibit the women from receiving guests according to Yemeni rules that require separate areas for men and women. High crime rates on the street inhibit the women from moving around the neighborhood.

Another pervasive factor contributing to the women’s sense of isolation is that other Yemenis are beginning to act more American: “Everyone is looking out for themselves.”

Volk concludes that the sources of distress for Yemeni women immigrants in the Tenderloin are multiple and cannot be easily changed. The women’s loneliness translates to complaints of physical fatigue, depression, and weight gain. Medicalizing their condition is not a solution.

Educating the non-Muslim population to become more accepting of the Yemenis and their culture would help improve understanding and acceptance. Providing English language classes for the Yemeni women that they can attend safely would help them communicate with non-Yemenis. Volk admits she has no idea how to counteract increasing self-centeredness either.

Any ideas from you?

Link: Volk’s article in Medical Anthropology Quarterly (December 2009)

Image: “-1231” by Flickr user Carpetblogger, licensed by Creative Commons.

#1 cultural anthropologist of the decade

As any cultural anthropologist will tell you, a decade is an arbitrary cultural construction with no inherent meaning. I agree. But it does offer a potentially interesting way to bracket a period of time within which a lot happens but not too much — at least not too much for my memory to handle.

On Morning Joe today, some commentators were going through a list of top 10 events of the decade, with the 9/11 attacks ranked as number one, the most significant. As I watched, I wondered if it would make sense to compile a ranked list of the most important cultural anthropologists of the decade. It seemed impossibly difficult, especially the ranking part. But then it hit me that I could reasonably make a case for a number one cultural anthropologist of the decade.

I hereby, with all the authority of a lone blogger, name Paul Farmer (Wiki, bio) as #1 Cultural Anthropologist of the Decade.

Here’s why, in case you do not already agree with me. He has published many important scholarly works, beginning with his groundbreaking exposure of the politics and racism that led to blaming Haiti for the origin and spread of HIV/AIDS.

In addition to his many scholarly publications, Farmer is an influential global health practitioner and activist and co-founder of Partners in Health. Tracy Kidder’s book about him and his health work in Haiti, Mountains beyond Mountains, is widely read. CBS did a documentary on him in 2008. The Skoll Foundation named him “Entrepreneur of the Year” in 2008. In 2009, he was a top contender for the position of head of the U.S. Agency for International Development, and in the same year he was named U.S. deputy special envoy to Haiti.

Within the discipline of anthropology, Farmer has placed consideration of poverty, social inequality and social justice in the mainstream of research and writing. His use of the term “structural violence” has ensured its significance well beyond medical anthropology. His insistence on taking poverty and social inequality seriously as primary causes of health problems worldwide has helped shake the foundations of western biomedicine. He has helped forge importance links between health and human rights.

Pied Piper. Source: Wikipedia.
Pied Piper. Source: Wikipedia.

Rich anecdotal evidence from my experience teaching at GW also supports my naming of Farmer as #1 Cultural Anthropologist of the Decade. In my undergraduate cultural anthropology class, when I ask who has heard of him, many hands shoot up. Of these students, most have read Mountains Beyond Mountains. A few have heard him speak. In my upper level class on medical anthropology, an even larger proportion of students is aware of his work, and many have read one of his books in another class (they will in my class as well). In my graduate seminars, most students have read at least one of his books and perhaps also an article or two.

Beyond the impressive level of awareness among my students of Farmer’s contributions to health and anthropology, however, is what I refer to as The Paul Farmer Effect (PFE). I created this term to refer to the Pied Piper role he plays: I keep hearing from students that want to be a Paul Farmer. And they are choosing courses, majors and minors, to help achieve that goal.

Thus enrollments at GW in classes in medical anthropology, culture and human rights and cultural anthropology generally are booming. Increasing numbers of B.A. students are combining majors in anthropology, global health and/or international affairs, and adding a minor or two if they cannot fit in a double major. At the graduate level, our dual M.A. degree in international development studies and public health is very popular, and there is strong demand for a similar dual master’s degree in anthropology and public health. Every year, I receive inquiries from medical students about how they can include anthropology in their training.

The Paul Farmer Effect.

At GW, I began to notice it five years ago or so. Since then, the PFE has not abated. It is growing. Because of the PFE, more students each year combine their academic interests in anthropology, global health and international affairs. These students are beginning to graduate and go on to pursue humanitarian careers. Thanks to Paul Farmer and the PFE, they are more powerfully informed and more motivated to make the world a better place than would otherwise be the case.

More tattoos, more sex?

In many cultures, the human body is not good enough as it is: it requires remodeling and marking of various types. Tattoos, piercing, scarification and other forms of bodily modification are widespread across contemporary human cultures, and they have long existed.

Archaeological and other prehistoric evidence indicates that head elongation, ear piercing and tattooing have been practiced for hundreds of years. Patterned blue dots appear in various places on the skin of Ötzi, the Neolithic “Ice Man,” and scientists theorize that the location indicates a possible healing function.

Tattoos among highland peoples in Southeast Asia can protect the bearer against harm such an animal attack or can enhance one’s intelligence, strength or attractiveness. Cultural anthropologists have written extensively about body modifications representing human agency and choice as well as being oppressive “inscriptions,” such as foot binding, breast enhancement or genital cutting. Evolutionary anthropologists seek to understand how such behaviors as tattooing and piercing relate to biological fitness. The bottom line: do tattoos and other forms of body modification help people find a mate and reproduce their genes?

Anthropologist Slawomir Koziel and colleagues propose two hypotheses about tattoos and piercing drawn from evolutionary biology:

  1. because tattoos and piercings involve biological risks due to possible blood-borne infections, they signal a higher biological quality
  2. tattoos and piercing increase a person’s physical attractiveness or hide a problem with appearance specifically low body symmetry (high symmetry is taken as an indicator of healthy development).

To test these hypotheses, the researchers recruited participants in two tattoo salons in two cities in Western Poland. A total of 64 men and 52 women took part. All reported having tattoos or piercings beyond earlobe piercing. All were Polish, and the mean age was 23 years. Most had completed secondary school and 25 were postgraduates.

A control group was composed of 38 men and 48 women who had no tattoos or piercing. All participants completed a questionnaire asking about basic demographics: age, gender, place of birth and residence, education and marital status. Their second and fourth digits were measured, as was finger length from basal crease of the digit to the tip along the ventral surface of the hand. These measurements were used to create a composite index for body symmetry.

Among males, the most common location for tattoos was the upper and lower extremities. For females, it was the back and stomach. Men had more tattoos covering more of their body than women did. Piercings were most often on the face for males and on the stomach for females.

Results offered no support for the first hypothesis about attractiveness for either the men or the women. In terms of the second hypothesis, tattooing among the men was positively related to higher body symmetry and thus appears to be an “honest signal” of biological quality. Among the women, no relationship was found. The authors see the need for further research on the biological function of tattoos/piercing especially among men in different social contexts and in varying social strata in relation to the men’s personality, risk-taking behavior and hormones. The body symmetry measures used in this study could also be improved upon in terms of assessing “genetic quality.”

Food for thought for readers who have opted, or not opted, for body modification: Do you find either hypothesis compelling?

Photo: “Ben (01), Tattoo Artist”, from Flickr, licensed for Creative Commons.

Anthropology for all

Anthropology is an essential part of everyone’s education today, according to comments in an article about “foreignness” in the special holiday double edition of the Economist.

Why is anthropology so important now? Because more people than ever are “foreigners” for one reason or another, willingly or unwillingly. Last year, nearly half of the people of South Korea had never spoken to a foreigner. But they will have to learn to, since the country’s foreign population is steadily rising and now constitutes more than 2 percent of the population.

In rich countries worldwide, an average of 8 percent of the population is foreign-born. When cultural anthropology began in the late 19th and early 20th centuries, its value was in providing understanding to Westerners about the faraway “other.” But now it has growing value in providing insights to us all about the “other” at home and about how “natives” and “others” can learn from each other and live together peacefully and pluralistically. In this world of increasing foreignness, the following is good advice for both natives and others: “educate yourself, beginning with anthropology.”

Image: “Restaurant For Foreigners” by Flickr user Stinkie Pinkie, licensed by Creative Commons.